Dane Cook is a funny man (sometimes)... Dane Cook is a hot man (almost all the time). More importantly, Dane Cook is a smart man. (Ok, he said one smart thing once, but it works here.) He had this whole skit talking about relationships and how they really should be called relationshits. I'm starting to think he's right...
Being in a relationship for any length of time is hard. Being in a relationship for over two years for someone who's never done anything longer than three months is a life-altering challenge. You have to be truly, madly, deeply in love to make it last. You have to constantly work at it. You have to communicate. That's the biggest thing right there. No one can read minds (alright, a few people might be able to, but they might also be crazy.) so you need to say what's on yours. If something is bothering you, you have to address the issue. Or you can let it grow and fester and next thing you know, you have this huge three-headed monster that you can't tackle together. It grows between you and just pushes you apart.
I think K and I are at that point. The monster is in the egg still (monsters are hatched, right?), but it's there and that's a problem. I can't keep addressing the issue from my side. I just feel like I'm beating a dead horse. I don't want to fight. It's exhausting. I want K to notice things are off and say something. I want him to want to fix things.
I just want things to be fine. I miss the way things were with my best friend. I miss us.
But then again, maybe he doesn't...
How do you communicate with your other part?
Peace, love and an extra helping of peace,
J xoxo
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